Is it possible that people here on the forum could help you? Generally speaking, we're not professionals, but speaking from my own experience with asking questions here, there's a lot of wisdom available!
I totally agree, I have gotten some great ideas here...you could post some questions publically and if you needed to get into more detail you could post privately to someone. And I have to say, while we aren't "experts" in a sense we are experts due to all the experiences we have all been through and knowing our kids. We have learned a lot and most of us have been researching and seeking out answers for quite some time. : )
