I don't like this term. It feels like people are not considering all the factors that go into making this type of decision. Sometimes holding back a child back for maturity can be a good thing. On the outside it is hard to know all the circumstances. There may be some people who hold back kids for the wrong reason but that's very personal so how would we really know to judge?

I don't mean to pick on anyone. I just think this is something to consider.

Last edited by onthegomom; 12/16/09 06:27 AM.