Melissa,
that is great that you can have little bit of both worlds for you DD (dual enrollment). Our district has gifted policies in place, which offers gifted full time classes (they do not accelerate, only differentiate in the classroom). I called the School district to ask them what would be our options: and that is it. The full time gifted classroom with in classroom differentiation.

I am hoping, that we can work something out with DS's current school. MY DS likes stable, to him predictable environment, and switching schools would be hard on him (at least for now, I think).

CFK, was the EP specific as far as subjects and what was he learning, who is teaching him and so forth?