I recently changed my cyber address and the mail hasn't caught up. Darn!

After reading everyone's opinions on the topic and evaluating the situation tonight; I am even more certain that I am dealing with another quirky habit. I even tested her tonight, explaining that I would only do one thing and allowing her to choose the one and she didn't pitch the fit I expected.

Thank you all for the opinions b/c as I said ... talking to other moms with kids the same age I was constantly getting the 'how strange' comments but I think the strange element really highlights the gifted factor which seems to be backed by the reassuring comments of all of you.