I think visiting the class would be a great way for me to get first hand information about how DS functions. My concern is that I get so many behaviors as the mom - the clinginess and whining really step up a notch when I'm around, versus my husband. So maybe I should send DH to look.
We had an interesting weekend - with intellectual gymnastics and oversensitivities in abundance! After three days on the road and out of town with DS, I have no reason to think he is a "typical kid" - there is definitely something different here. No matter what the test scores say! Thanks to all for the information. It has helped a lot!
