I thing a good rule of thumb is to say what you wouldnt mind you child overhearing. 'admins reccomended it'is an old favorite. so is - best fit and learn how to learn. You can always try - its what shes ready for. body language matters. project relaxed confidence even if you have to practice in a mirror. If they tell dire stories, have a relaxed: You dont say? ready. enjoy!

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