Montana - for the 3 year old, why not try:

Raising a Thinking Child, By Dr. Myrna B. Shure

I was fasinated by this book, but my only was a bit too old to get much benifit from it by the time I read it. I've been wondering what age of gifted kid 'wouldn't' be too young for this, so if it does or doesnt' help, please let me know, ok?

Best Wishes,
Grinity

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