Mia-
Sorry to hear that you even have to discuss it. I know you've been very happy with his school! But I'm happy you asked the question because I've been debating myself if I need to meet with DS's new school (if/when we get in) in advance or just wait and see. I met with DS's current teacher about two weeks into the school year and it turned out so terribly! Though I know it wasn't my fault, I am so resistant to another early meeting!