She.
I do not know what has snapped.Very quiet, withdrawn, shy girl. A poet. Emo.
My son seems to be quite OK, she was his classmate but they hang out with different crowds.
I have been to number of funerals r/t school : kids, parents etc, but this one was really, really sad.
The only reason I am bringing this up here is those "dramatic" middle school years. Watch out, check their cells phones, their e-mails, listen to their music.