Ellipses,
My heart goes out to you!
I reccomend sharing books about Holacaust Rescuers with your daughter.
One on one time with her will probably go a long way, and the exersize idea sounds good to.
Service projects are important.

But mostly, DS12 is surrounded by 8th graders who are very easily offended. Part of me feels sorry that he is surrounded by 'all this,' but I think that in a way he is lucky that he isn't going through this (as much) while his friends do.

Love and More Love,
Grinity

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