Thanks for the support. I can only hope our DS's school experience approaches the success of yours so far. I think if DS gets the chance to learn with the older kids, he would be fine too. I mentioned during our meeting that DS's favorite person to be with is 3 years older than he is, and that he tends to get along better with older kids, but that didn't seem to have any effect.

I forgot to say that DS doesn't participate in things like songs during preschool, and he hates crafts. DH mentioned that he never did that as a kid either, so it's probably more of a personality thing than a socialization problem. But it makes me think that the stuff that's supposed to be "fun" in kindergarten won't be so fun for DS.