OOOhhh I do have to comment here. The first one you mentioned definitely sounds like my DS10 with the visual issues. Did you take him to a behavioral optometrist who tested him for perception and tracking type issues? Look at
www.covd.org to find a qualified optometrist if you haven't already. Not all doctors know how to deal with these kinds of things. Vision therapy has really helped my DS.
I'm not sure about the other things you mentioned. Try the website listed by mamabear and see if that helps any. Good luck!
