CFK--I love the posts where you contrast your two kids! Somehow the example of a parent making different decisions for 2 HG kids just brings the personal nature of decision-making into focus.
One of the funny things that happens in my brain is that b/c DS is not accelerated and is in a regular school, I start to think that he isn't as gifted as I think he is; that I'm nuts. When I see kids that are way accelerated or kids that are homeschooling and working at very high levels I start to think that either I am delusional about DS's abilities or I'm a bad mom for not pushing him. There are so many mind games we can play with ourselves.
I always feel a little saner after reading CFK's posts!
