Get out of your mind any thoughts that the teacher is judging you as a pushy parent or any type of parent. That sets up a defensive position which is uncomfortable for everyone. She seems focused on your son and what's best for him, and for now, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. At least until she says something overt. Then you can get defensive, offensive, or whatever it takes.
This seems to me to be REALLY good advice for anyone dealing with the schools.
I wish I'd gotten that advice from the start of this journey.
