The book
A Parent's Guide to Gifted Children (
https://www.amazon.com/Parents-Guide-Gifted-Children/dp/0910707529) may be of interest.
James T. Webb PhD was the founder of
Supporting Emotional Needs of the Gifted (SENG,
https://www.sengifted.org/ ) which offers occasional online web seminars (webinars or SENGinars) and in-person meet-ups for parents of gifted children called
SENG Model Parent Groups (SMPGs).
I agree with others who mentioned that you and your HS may be gifted, and also have some learning differences or learning disabilities in addition to being gifted. This combination is called twice exceptional or 2e. Some websites which may be of interest:
- Hoagies, 2e (
https://www.hoagiesgifted.org/what_is_2e.htm )
- Understood.org (
https://www.understood.org/en/articles/adhd-success-stories )
- Davidson Database (
https://www.davidsongifted.org/resource-library/ )
