Hi Philly. I just read this and was wondering how the meeting went and if things have changed for your child at school? We find ourselves in a very similar situation: DS5 adapts himself to whatever work or level they give him and reads books silently at school so as not to get remarked on by other children... ('advanced' classmates can recognize their own name, he reads national geo kids independently at home and loves it). We have a meeting planned as well.