How did we manage the craziness of multiple gifteds living under one roof? By checking ourselves on not worrying about the little things and setting priorities as well as realizing nobody can do it all....but that doesn't mean we don't try!
Think of it like a budget or as if you're managing your family. You only have so many resources and there are always more demands on those resources than a supply. Focus on the big priority items, delegate authority, make children responsible for what they're capable of (and sometimes a bit more) and sometimes you simply have to say no, we can't do that, we simply don't have the time / resources.
