I like the CBT workbook for kids titled Think Good, Feel Good. Appropriate for tweens and teens because examples include situation with kids hanging out with friends and boyfriend/stuff along the lines of "she doesn't like me".

"Different Minds" is a heavy read for parents about where giftedness, aspergers, and ADHD intersect and how we can tease apart what might be normal giftedness versus giftedness plus autism traits or plus ADHD.