Thank you Puffin. No it is not through the school but I think they usually send the questionares to the teachers. He does not really have activities outside of school that does not put him in hyper focus. He was on team sports which he struggled but he has not been on one in over a year. He has piano and gymnastics which both he is very focused and does well. Gymnastics he engages well with direction from his coach and does not speak at all to team members but does not need to. Maybe an extended family member or his school counselor who have seen him in unstructured social settings might work?
