Originally Posted by Dude
To me, the key question is how his perceived immaturity is having a negative effect, apart from just bothering you.

Good perspective! Yes, his behavior does bother me, but my concerns go beyond that.

When he is in the immature/impulsive mode, he becomes fixated on having fun that he becomes very rough and eventually either he and/or someone always gets hurt. On the totter case, I thought the lighter kid was going airborne.

Maybe he doesn't know how to act age-appropriate. I can try on that angle.