Thanks for being so supportive Portia. Many other parents give us weird looks like we are bad parents for having a child this wild. But unless one actually has a child with severe ADHD they don't know what it's really like. For a long time we actually blamed ourselves for his behaviors and blamed DS. But over time we have come to grips with it and have come to understand how debilitating ADHD can be. Our dd7 is perfectly well behaved and gets perfect teacher comments so we know it is not our parenting style.