DH and I received an email from DS' teacher that he's to receive an outstanding scholar award later this week.
I am underwhelmed by this. I know for a fact that most of what he's being applauded for is subject matter he already knew when we grade-skipped him.
I know why some gifted feel like imposters, but what about the feelings of the parents? We have been invited to attend the bestowing of said accolade and I feel like cringing.
DH said we should go to support DS. If for no other reason than he's received A's in Physical Ed and Music, both of which are difficult and new to him respectively.
But I wonder what this award is subtly teaching him. That he will receive recognition for not working that hard? For being a kid that has things come naturally to him? Sort of like a beauty contest...receiving a crown for what nature gave you?
Should I stress he's getting the award for those classes for which he placed a lot of effort and just let the rest go?
