Originally Posted by greenlotus
We tell the kids this week. That alone fills me with fear. Lots of tears ahead.
Possibly a small gift could serve as a conversation opener? For example, there are mugs and other items which are printed with a map having different locations marked by a heart and connected by dashed lines... or if they have a favorite 18" doll, possibly a doll outfit or accessory which represents the culture, tradition, or history of the area in which your family's new home will be... or a book about the area... or a scrapbook for collecting photos and well-wishes from their friends...

There are many ways to spark enthusiasm and emphasize embracing the positive... while remaining realistic and acknowledging that there is good and bad in everything.