Originally Posted by indigo
Whatever method she chooses to try (and she may want to adopt several, adjusting what works and dropping what doesn't)... she needs to buy into it, own it, and be the boss of it... truly feeling like it is her decision of how to best help herself.
Several of you said this, and I absolutely agree. There is no forcing DD to do it anyway but "her own". We had a great time shopping for an agenda earlier in the year. She spent ages finding the perfect one.