ps, this really goes back to this thread, which I should have noted.
http://giftedissues.davidsongifted....gled_out_as_bad_kid_long.html#Post229834this meeting got set kind of last minute and then late in the game I remembered you guys probably know all about how to handle this...so I posted here with my question. thanks.
one ok thing I did, instead of request 'an apology', I requested they write her a note saying:
"when you said ....such and such...the first time, we should have believed you" and
"we don't dislike you or mistrust you".
she is not going to do exactly that, but maybe something similar.
one reason I said it should be a note is, she really is afraid of both the admin and the counselor who was also in the office at the point some of this occurred.
they really did freak her out. Sheesh.
