I'm sorry.
Maybe take one thing at a time? It sounds like several are snowballing.
The school issue is a hard one. Finding his place or his friends at school is hard. Is he not friends with his twin? How old is he? I grew up with a (fraternal) twin and we weren't BFFs or anything but there was always comfort in having each other around.
The tutor situation should be easier right? You can find a different tutor that clicks. Or different material they can work on?
My K kid is working at about 2nd grade in math. He needs to spend more time doing double digit addition and subtraction practice to move on and he still really should get faster with basic math facts. He wants to do multiplication, algebra, and high school geometry though. Recently I've struck a deal with him that if he sits down and does 15m of 2nd grade math he can then go do what he wants after that. It's a small enough time that even a K student can just get it done and move on and I think it feels "fair" to him. Just a thought. It works for us.
GL
