Thanks, everyone. They are both DYS (and both have ability and achievement scores that make them DYS-eligible), but accommodations at our local school have been very hard to come by. We may have very recently found some personnel at the school who finally understand, but the other child continues to be in a "poor fit" situation (and this year she started refusing to go to school, so we are VERY concerned about her). I know that I need to approach the school, but I do fear asking for too much as DS needs help, too. It is good to get everyone's feedback - thank you.
