I'm just curious if anyone is willing to share if they have had a good experience in public schools with their 2e child in terms of special ed and where you are located? A school where you don't have to push and fight and advocate for the smallest of things? And if so, is it just your school or district, or the state overall seems to "get it"?
Also, does anyone know how a person can figure out if a district has a good special ed program without actually going there and trying it out? Because just going and visiting or talking to the principal does no good. They all say they are excellent and will meet the student's needs. Maybe they actually think that's true. But then you find out later that they are actually clueless.
(my kids' current school isn't terrible like others we've experienced, but DD is aging out of it, since it's just an elementary school, and we need to find other options).
