I just wanted to come back and thank everyone for your comments. Putting bites of food on appetizer forks has worked really well at restaurants. And today my daughter jumped off the side of the pool and swam across it!! Not like a swim team swimmer, but good enough. It just kind of came from nowhere. It is great to see her accomplish the goal.

All this stuff is just so frustrating, and the rest of the world doesn't get it at all.