These are great conversations! And, as we all know, 'The unexamined life is not worth living'. !!!
(socrates)
More relevant to the intial idea of "what if everything is something we make up?": Plato's allegory of the cave, from The Republic could be a good read for a deep thinker that age, avoiding the more modern 'god is dead' stuff.

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