I can't thank you all enough for your positive feedback. I wrote this right after we got out of testing and I had a million things going through my head. I think I was thrown off by the gifted label because she just tested him yesterday and even though he scores high on tests etc. I thought identification might be after the test is scored. Even though he is a member of CTY I know this test is a much more comprehensive tool. I think I was a little caught off guard. LOL
To be honest DS is very intense and it can be challenging as his parent and at times even hard on the family. He can very rigid especially towards my DD who is very sweet and accommodating. I think CBT is definitely the way to go. I was very impressed with the psychologist who did the testing. She has been in the field for 20 years and is very well respected in our area. Thanks again for all of your feedback!!