I had a developmental pediatrician diagnose, mostly after minimal samples and a thorough OT eval. Our neuropsych and ed psych were not helpful except to recommend OT, not for diagnosis. Our neuropsych was not thorough, however.

ITA with thinking about getting another OT. How in the world could a child write well if they were only motivated? Are there fine motor delays in the hand she is using? Sounds like strange wording at least, possibly a negative demeanor.

Life is the hardest teacher. It gives the test first and then teaches the lesson.