My 5 yr old Senior Kindergardener was assessed as both gifted and autistic.

He has been doing well in school, but it's been a bit weird in terms of accommodations. Not bad, just weird. He is an exceptionally good fit with his main K teacher. All the other staff who deal with him are describing him as "defiant" or "annoying" and often seem or are described as being frustrated or annoyed.

How many office visits per week is too many? At what point do we make an effort to get better accommodations? I'm a little concerned because once he's in the office, he gets LESS accommodations, and there are a lot of distractions from people trying to chat him up, etc.


DS1: Hon, you already finished your homework
DS2: Quit it with the protesting already!