Hi all, just want to reiterate there is ZERO pressure from us for dd to read, we occasionally offer it as an activity (which I think would happen in most pre school homes) and it is rejected most of the time, when she does have a go she loses heart very quickly. She can read a bit on the computer - single words not putting it together. If she's not ready then that's fine, however as she is a perfectionist developing a pretty severe non growth mind set I find it worrying the speed with which she gives up.

I have left it alone completely, not even suggesting reading and will continue to do so.