Good Luck. I hope you finally get some concrete help for your DS.

My older DD (20) was not gifted and struggled a language processing delay all the way through school, so I've been there. We caught it early and she is now a successful junior in college. It can get better with the right intervention. I am now in the process of putting together a 504 for my DS15, and I'm kicking myself for not doing this earlier for him.