Thanks everyone. Yes, most of it is because he is a very strong willed 4 year old. That does factor into my decision. What concerns me most is the sensory stuff. The screaming and uncontrollable crying when loud noises happen. Or total shut down when there are strangers or a large crowd. When his routine is off by just 15 mins, he looses it.

We will wait and see for the most part. I am hoping that this school year will help him and we will see how he is doing entering Kinder.

I would still love to hear everyones ideas and thoughts.
Thanks!