I don't have any great suggestions, but just wanted to say, me too! My daughter is almost 3 and our nanny is in school to become a kindergarten teacher. She told me that the K teachers where she's doing student teaching are working on introducing an alphabet letter a day, when my daughter learned the whole alphabet months ago and is working on spelling words!

Right now my husband and I are just trying to investigate all the schooling options out there. We may get her tested to see if she can get into a local private school for gifted kids, but she's perfectly capable of blowing the test on purpose (ah, temperament!), so we're exploring all possibilities.