Yes, I share the uncertainty, of whether my 2.5 yo daughter is gifted due to the fact that she does not continuously act super smart, but those moments when she is singing frozen songs without a mistake and in fairly good pitch at the top of her lungs and acting out the scenes like saying "Do you want to build a snow man... It doesn't have to be a snowman" in the same voice as in the movie under the bathroom door I think to myself... Self, your daughter is something else.

Later, when she is whining about not wanting to do something that she is supposed to do, I think, no she is just a normal 2 year old.

Later still she want to go save Captain hook, and needs to make some more pixie dust first and I start thinking again she is something else.

There, are those moments where she will say very thoughtful things that seem years above her, and this tells me that I must not treat her in every way like an ordinary child because she understands so much more, but at the same time I do have to treat her like an ordinary child because she is still just this very little girl.