Thanks so much for everyone's perspective. I think we will try to gather enough good things to say on a thank-you card. DS can't wait to get out of there, he's had enough. The kids are not in the same school, DD is in our public school and DS is in a private school for gifted (except that the academics turned out to be really weak but the teacher felt really good). And thanks for the reminder about the total amount of gift per year--I do need to find out about that.

Last edited by playandlearn; 06/08/14 04:35 PM.