I cannot talk to any of DD's grandparents. The only exception is one of DD's great-grandmothers. She's been very supportive of DD and is very proud of her. She shows off pictures of DD and her artwork to anyone who is willing to listen to her. I don't know why the rest of the family thinks we are either too pushy or not pushy enough. I guess I should be happy that if I average out their feedback, it comes out that we're doing a great job. :P