It's so hard. I feel for ya!
My 9 year old makes weird noises and is a loud talker (his hearing is fine). He does things that annoy other kids. When I notice his behavior annoys, I try hard to pull him aside and let him know that this is what Johnny said/did when you did X behavior. That was his way of letting you know it was bothering him. Maybe could you not jump in his face and chatter like a monkey and he may want to play.
I think a lot of it is the over excitability. I try hard to praise and give examples of how he could have done something a little different.
But yeah... it hurts when your kid says no one wants to play with him.
