Originally Posted by Zen Scanner
Minor enhancement, I'd try to develop the list with them and strategize on it together so they take ownership for the decisions (part psychology, part lifelong learning) rather than prsent it as fait accompli.

I second this. When we wrote our family rules, I had a few suggestions and we all gave input and agreed together as a family what they would be. Big buy in by all involved and made it easier to reference later.