I can't give much specific advice, but I'm replying to say welcome, and to bump the post for you!
I don't know if you intended to have your daughter's name in post, or whether it's a pseudonym? This is a public forum, and matters can get pretty personal, so most of us stick to DS/DD (dear son/daughter) - my son is not called Colin :-) Up to you, of course, but you can edit your post if you like.
Sounds as though the teacher is frustrated with aspects of your DD's behaviour? I know it's infuriating if you feel you know what's causing it, but I think you may need to focus on that to get anywhere, unless you have other school options.
