I'm disgruntled with our school district, and can't tell how much is me being That Mom, and how much is them Doing It Wrong. I suspect that it's to some extent each of us being suspicious of the other.
If your child is DYS, how helpful have you found the Family Consultant in dealing with your school / improving the parent-school dynamic?
(If they're generally helpful in that area, it's probably worth IQ testing in hopes of qualifying DD for DYS. If not, then we'll continue with the "don't test unless results would change something" rule of thumb.)
