Are there charter schools where you live? We have had great luck with them. My HG DD attends a full day gifted program. My 2e/HG/ADD/Dysgraphic DS attends a regular charter, but the focus is on experiential learning, the arts and meeting kids where they are, both emotionally and academically. In DS's case, that meant getting a two year math skip, spelling one year below his grade level (and only 1/2 the words to start), reading at grade level and two pull outs per week for OT and writing therapy. He has done really well there and is way, way above grade level in everything except the writing now. They grade skip regularly too, and not just the uber-gifted. So look around and see if you can find a diamond in the rough. Nothing about my son's school screams "gifted". They have average test scores and struggle financially, so the facility is not beautiful and sleek. But the philosophy is very gifted/2e friendly and it has worked out great for us.
