BTDT. Divorced and dealt with a PITA ex-husband. It gets better as time passes. Every time my ex would say or do something stupid like that I would thank him for reminding me why I divorced him in the first place.

Glad you are confident that you will prevail in the visitation issue. I'm sure you will. Hang in there. Don't let him pull you down - it only gives him satisfaction.

Cheers. Hope the wine is a good year!