So sorry. I would agree with LMom that something from your DD's school and something re: the opportunities afforded DD by YSP and research as to what kids like her need will help defuse your XH's statement in the eyes of the court. Fact is, from what you've told us, they agreed with you once before - and your DD proved them right. It's the type of thing that can be explained very nicely. Also, it appears to me that the thinking as to what to do for extremely bright children has changed since you and your XH were kids.
