My eldest DS19 now, always had a multitude of different groups of peers he related to. He realized it wasn't likely he was going to find someone just like himself and that would be kind of boring anyway! He had his GT friend group, his music friend group, his athletic friend group, his creative / off the way humor friend group, etc. and never considered himself to be in any click group, he just treated everyone with respect, dignity, kindness, was accepting, and listened well getting along with just about everyone.
