It sounds like the psych's assessment fits very well with what you've experienced with your dd. I would bring/fax the report to the neuropsych and discuss your concerns with the NVLD diagnosis, maybe discussing that you've had a chance read up more about NVLD and that the social issues don't seem to fit. Hopefully, you don't have a narcissist on your hands with the neuro. I think it's fair to ask how social behavior is accurately assessed in the midst of untreated anxiety (as the delay of such assessment is clinically appropriate). In the long run, the school may not even be aware of the specifics of an NVLD dx, as it is not yet recognized with a controlled set of diagnostic criteria.
