So Zebras,
What about asking for a gradeskip? I also think you should ask what the cut off is for enterance into the gifted program, but unless that program is daily and covers at least half of the school hours, it's really not going to solve your problem. If they have kids who score similarly on the MAP test in her classroom, then well that's fine, but if not, she needs to be in a classroom where the other kids are ready to learn what she is ready to learn.
Don't worry about what they think of you! Be firm and polite, and be sure to know that there is suffering going on at home. Bless those children who 'hold back' at school and act like everything is fine and save if for home. That's a great skill to have, but if she won't be the squeeky wheel, you have to out her. That's the parent's job. ((shrugs))
Love and More Love,
Grinity
